Guides
Short answers to the questions that come up when planning a meal for an azkara or a shiva.
Azkara and shiva
What to serve at an azkara or the shloshim
What families usually serve guests at an azkara or the shloshim, how to build a respectful meal course by course, and what to settle before you order.
How much food to order for an azkara
How much food to order for an azkara: start with the guests and the kind of meal, pick dishes on the site, and our team confirms the order and price with you.
When is the azkara, and how to find the date
The yahrzeit follows the Hebrew date of the passing; the shiva and shloshim are counted from the funeral. What to know about the dates and where customs differ.
Should you bring food to a shiva house?
No one has to bring food to a shiva, but it is a real help to the family. What to bring, how friends can coordinate, and how to send a meal to the shiva house.
Yahrzeit calculator
When the azkara falls
The Hebrew date, the end of the shiva and the shloshim, and the azkara dates in the coming years
